Transitioning into my "older" twenties I've begun to learn a lot of about life, myself, and others...
One major thing I've learned and are continuing to learn about is:
The difference between friendships when you're younger vs friendships now.
To me "friendship" isn't a simple definition. There are so many different kinds and levels of friendship. The best thing about the many different kinds of friendship is that they can overlap, intertwine, and jump from one to another.
"Unbreakable Friendships"
There are those select friendships you are lucky enough to have that are beautiful and long-lasting. Nothing can keep you apart guys apart! If you're lucky enough you get to see and hang out with them regularly. However, if you're not lucky enough to live close to each other thankfully we have technology, it's the best you can do sometimes- thank you iPhones! These kinds of friendships are unbreakable because you both are lucky enough to have formed such a strong connection and love for each other, nothing can tear you apart.
"Memorable Friendships"
There are those friendships that you had and will always treasure, but you've both begun to move your separate ways in life. Again, luckily for technology we will forever be "bonded" in some form with our friends. Facebook, instagram, Twitter, and the ever popular phone app - timehop. We are able to in a few finger swipes go "back in time" and relive memories, good or bad, with friends. These kinds of friendships are memorable because even if you don't keep in contact, everybody enjoys a good stroll down memory lane, which can in return reignite the friendship flame!
"Timeless Friendships"
There are those friendships where months, sometimes even years go by where you can't or don't keep in touch with each other. But that moment you reconnect it's like no time at all has gone by and you pick up right where you left off. These kinds of friendships are timeless because your bond is deep and strong that "time" has no power over your connection. Once reunited it's right back to normal.
"Group Friendships"
There are those friendships you form in groups. A common interest or activity can create a group of people that you bond with. These kinds of friendships are great because it's always fun to do things in groups. You get to meet a lot of new people who others bring into group settings - and it's always fun to put yourself out there and meet new people!
It's up to you to decide whose friendship is important to you.
And to my friends - thank you! You all help make me a better person every day and in return I hope I do the same for you. I treasure each and every one of you. You are all beautiful.
